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How about your identity?
I’ve been thinking about our cultural obsession with the perfect body. Especially on Instagram. And magazines. All of the platforms. It’s invasive and it’s everywhere.
Perfection in the physical is often overly celebrated, in my opinion. We’ve grown numb or used to it and many of us have adopted the idea of an ideal body
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But there is sooooo much more to a happy, contented and joy filled life. What is true beauty? What actually makes the world a better place? Let’s consider attributes like kindness, compassion, thoughtfulness, determination, honesty loveliness, just being a good friend, and all of the true good that you have to offer this world
To say I’m not affected by so much focus on the body would be a lie. I am. But I really do push against it the best I can. And how do I do that
I start by thanking God for my body and thinking about my abilities in both mind
and body… My ability to surf. To serve my family. To grow and birth children( I could go on and
on about this one!). To love others. To bring hope to a hurting, fearful, and challenged
world.
I also focus on my health. I eat nourishing food, I get movement in my day (yet not
overdoing it), and I make sleep a priority. I also use natural skin care and avoid anything
toxic. Good health will set us up for natural beauty and for a healthy mind too.
I pray for my worries and struggles. I breathe and rest and do my best to avoid
overloading my plate to minimize stress and overwhelm.
I also focus on where my identity lies. I trust that I’m loved and accepted by God.
Life is so much more than the perfect body and to those of you out there really
struggling, I feel for you, and fully acknowledge the cultural pressure is real.
Please know that you are not alone and there are ways to free yourself from this struggle.
So today, I encourage you to say no to self abuse. Say no to eating disorders. Say no to
accepting the pressure and the lies. I encourage you to spend less time on social media
(yes, get off this place!) and more time with those who love you, and more time doing
things you love. Spend more time in nature! You can also start learning about healthy
living.
You can choose to celebrate your true beauty and know you are loved. You have
purpose in this life. You can focus a little less on yourself and instead look for ways to
help and love on others. You can shine in so many meaningful ways. You can bring hope
and light by being real and honest.
Be brave enough to say no to the lies and instead be beautiful YOU. Be persistent for as
long as it takes to overcome. And finally I encourage you to talk with someone you trust.
And be honest!
No pressure of course, but if you are really struggling and don’t know where to start
check out my online courses: “Anchor Your Identity” with Tim Tebow, and “Let Go of
Comparison” with Arielle Estoria, or “Optimize Your Health” with Dr. Dustin Dillberg. I
developed these courses because I believe in these topics and want to give you tools to
be Unstoppable in your own beautiful life!
This is just the tip of the iceberg, but I hope you are encouraged and consider this a
heartfelt pep-talk from me to you!
Lots of love Font

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